ElevateHER Marriage on Purpose
HER 12-Month Marriage Formation Experience
✨ This Program Is For You If…
✔ You are single and want to prepare wisely for marriage
✔ You are dating and want clarity, confidence, and discernment
✔ You are married and want to strengthen connection and communication
✔ You believe marriage is sacred and worth investing in
✔ You want practical tools rooted in faith and emotional maturity
✔ You’re ready to grow — not blame
This is not about fixing a man.
This is about becoming intentional in how you show up in relationships.
🌿 What You’ll Gain (At Any Stage)
💬 Communication Mastery
Learn how to express needs clearly without manipulation, shutdown, or resentment.
❤️ Emotional Intelligence
Understand triggers, patterns, attachment tendencies, and regulation.
🧠 Relationship Discernment
For singles and dating women: identify healthy traits and red flags early.
🔁 Conflict Navigation
Disagree in ways that build trust instead of eroding it.
🎯 Marriage Vision Clarity
Move from hoping for a good marriage to building one intentionally
💎 Confidence & Secure Identity
Learn to build or strengthen a marriage from a place of security, self-awareness, and spiritual grounding
🌟 Program Curriculum Highlights
Quarter 1 - Mastering Spirituality for Marriage
Marriage is not just a relational covenant — it is a spiritual one. In this foundational quarter, women are invited to deepen their intimacy with God before deepening intimacy with a partner. Rather than seeking marriage from a place of longing, pressure, or fear, participants learn to anchor themselves spiritually so that their desire for partnership flows from wholeness, not emptiness.
This quarter cultivates discernment, spiritual confidence, and alignment. Women clarify their values, refine their standards, and strengthen their trust in God’s timing and design for marriage. They confront spiritual distractions, surrender control, and learn to invite God intentionally into every relationship decision.
By the end of this quarter, participants are not just preparing for a spouse — they are becoming spiritually grounded women who understand that marriage is ministry, partnership is purpose, and covenant requires spiritual maturity.
Quarter 2 - Mastering Self-Awareness for Marriage
Healthy marriage begins with deep self-understanding. In this quarter, women turn inward — not in self-criticism, but in courageous reflection. Participants explore how their upbringing, past relationships, emotional wounds, attachment patterns, and belief systems shape the way they show up in love.
Rather than blaming partners or external circumstances, women learn to take ownership of their emotional responses, communication habits, and relational expectations. This season emphasizes healing, accountability, and growth. Participants develop emotional intelligence, recognize their triggers, and build the capacity to respond rather than react.
This quarter transforms self-awareness into empowerment. Women gain clarity about who they are, what they need, what they will no longer tolerate, and how to enter or sustain a relationship from a place of maturity and strength. Because lasting partnership requires two emotionally whole individuals — not two people hoping the other will fix what they have not faced.
Quarter 3 - Mastering Relationship Skills for Marriage
Love may bring two people together, but skill keeps them together. In this quarter, women learn the practical relational competencies that sustain connection beyond chemistry and compatibility. Whether single, dating, engaged, or married, participants develop the communication tools, conflict repair strategies, and partnership mindset required for longevity.
This season focuses on cultivating emotional safety, building trust, and navigating differences with wisdom rather than ego. Participants learn how to express needs clearly, manage disagreements constructively, and create a relationship culture rooted in respect and shared vision.
Rather than approaching marriage with unrealistic expectations, women gain a realistic, healthy framework for what partnership requires. They learn that strong marriages are not built on perfection, but on intentional effort, humility, and skillful love.
By the end of this quarter, participants are not simply hoping for a good marriage — they are equipped to build one.
Quarter 4 - Mastering Stages to and Through Marriage
Marriage is not a single event — it is a series of evolving seasons. This final quarter prepares women for the transitions that occur before and after “I do.” Participants examine what readiness truly means, how to discern progression in dating, how to navigate engagement wisely, and how to establish strong foundations in early marriage.
Beyond preparation, this quarter addresses sustainability. Women learn how to remain intentional as roles shift, responsibilities increase, and life seasons change. They are guided through the realities of adjustment, growth, and maintaining connection over time.
This stage reinforces that getting married and staying married require different strengths — and both require intention. Women leave this quarter with a long-term vision for partnership, equipped not only to enter marriage thoughtfully, but to sustain it with grace, resilience, and purpose.
🎓 The 12-Month Experience
You will gather twice a month with a committed community of women who value marriage and personal growth.
📅 Start Date: May 7
🕕 Live Sessions: 1st & 3rd Thursdays | 6:00–7:30 PM Pacific
📍 Format: Live virtual coaching (recordings available)
Each session includes:
📍Strategic teaching
📍Guided reflection
📍Real-life relational tools
📍Coaching & Q&A
📍Community discussion
You won’t just gain information.
You will experience transformation.
🌟 Program Model
1st Thursday – Content & Coaching
Next 2 Weeks – Integration of Content & Coaching into Life
3rd Thursday – Reflect on Progress & Refine Approach
Next 2 Weeks – Integration of Refined Approach
🎁 Bonus Resources
How to Have Tough Conversations with Him Guide
Red flag & discernment checklist (for singles/dating)
Conflict reset worksheets
Marriage vision planner
Quarterly growth reflections
✅ 30-Day Confidence Guarantee
If within the first 30 days you feel this program is not aligned for you, we will provide a full refund.
Your investment should feel empowering.
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
I’m single. Is this really for me?
Yes. The best marriages are built before they begin. Preparation prevents unnecessary pain.
I’m married but my husband isn’t participating. Will this still help?
Absolutely. Personal growth shifts relational dynamics powerfully.
What if I miss a session?
Replays are available.
Is this therapy?
No. This is structured coaching focused on growth, intentionality, and relational skill-building.
Why is this so affordable?
This program is ministry first. The one-on-one and premium coaching options are more expensive.
💬 What Women Are Saying
“This program strengthened me — and that strengthened my relationship.”
“As a single woman, this program helped me prepare wisely instead of emotionally rushing into relationships.”
“I stopped reacting and started responding. That shift alone changed my marriage.”
📘 Everything Included
✔ 24 Live Coaching Sessions
✔ Downloadable Workbook & Guided Exercises
✔ Private Community Group Chat
✔ Session Replays
✔ Reflection Tools & Communication Templates
✔ Ongoing Accountability & Support
🚀 Ready to Approach Marriage on Purpose?
Whether you’re preparing for marriage or strengthening the one you’re in — this is your year to be intentional.
📅 Begins May 7
🕕 1st & 3rd Thursdays | 6–7:30 PM Pacific
💰 Investment Options
Standard Experience: $147/month or $1470 in full (2 months free)
Full 12-month group coaching experience, 24 sessions,
Workbook + community group chat support
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Your Relationship Coach
Dr. Loretta Shields has been guiding women in life, love, and leadership for over 15 years, serving in church leadership for more than 25 years, and contributing to academia for over 14 years. She holds a Doctor of Philosophy in Public Health, with a focus on relationship health and overall emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
With a Doctor of Ministry in Pastoral Counseling, Dr. Shields brings a holistic approach to coaching, blending psychology, counseling, and spirituality to support women at every stage of their journey—whether single, dating, or married.
Through ElevateHER Marriage on Purpose, she empowers women of faith to pursue intentional, thriving marriages and meaningful relationships. Her compassionate, client-centered coaching challenges women to engage in the spiritual, inner, and relational work necessary to cultivate healthy love, lasting partnerships, and purposeful living.